Books also give me this, and it's not often I find one that I connect so intensely with, but there are books that I can't seem to forget. Perhaps it's the formulation of words and imagery, I find myself reading my way through a beautiful cinematic adventure all played out in the wide span corners of my mind. It's invigorating, intoxicating, inspiring...and another in-word that I haven't even thought of yet. I can't help it, I just love to read. I love to escape into an unknown world, or explore the emotions and difficulties of someone other than those closest around me.

Other books carry a more serious nature to them, they hit you straight in the chest with an unforgiving smile of; you were warned. This past week I picked up a book that I read quite a long time ago, more than 10 years. For some reason the cover pulled me in once again as it had before and I knew it was time to delve into the depths of Nicholas Sparks' words. Now I know what you are thinking..."Oh god, Nicholas Sparks, he is nothing but sappy romance!" To that I say....shut up. Mainly because yes he is full of sappy romance but this particular book is more than just sap, it's really a guide to understand how to fix what you broke when it comes to relationships.
This amazing novel, The Wedding by Nicholas Sparks starts out with a character Wilson. He is a straight forward no nonsense kind of man who has been married for 29 years. He has his typical routine, wakes up, goes to work at a law firm, comes home and works some more in his office, eats dinner with his wife, and goes to bed. When you start this story you see him for the responsible man that he is, but you also understand that his actions over the years of his marriage have had consequences. Wilson completely forgets that it's his 29th Wedding Anniversary and doesn't realize this until it's far too late. He then spends the next year trying his best to fix the problems he has regretfully caused in an effort to save his marriage to the woman he loves.
Once again, yes of course this book is about love, but it is so much more than that. This book is about how to fall in love again, how to mend a broken heart, how to stumble through the terrifying "falling in love" and press forward into keeping what you want, how to keep a family together, how to enjoy the time you have of everyday little small things, how to work past the shit and move toward the good. Wilson does something that I think all men and women should take note of: He seriously puts in an effort. Not just the little things, but huge life changing things. He recognizes that he royally screwed up and makes a concious effort to fix it.
This book strikes me every time I read it, and there are times that his words hit me so hard that I feel like my heart is crushing along side his. He made a mistake, and he is paying the price but even though it's an emotional roller coaster he doesn't give up. There is also I slight twist to this story, but I will leave that for you to read :)
If you are looking for something heart warming this is your book. If you are struggling with trying to understand your emotions about a relationship this is definitely your book. If you royally screwed up a relationship and have no idea how to fix it...this is THE book for you my friend.
ENJOY YOUR READING!! I'd love to hear your thoughts when you are done!!!!
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